Saturday 10th December– Saturday 17th December 2022
- jonathonrouth
- Dec 10, 2022
- 3 min read
THE THIRD WEEK OF ADVENT
DECEMBER IS THE MONTH OF THE IMMACULATE CONCEPTION
Dear parishioners,
THE STATE OF OUR NEIGHBOUR’S CHURCH.
It was good to see the Church packed for our School Carol Service last Thursday, but this was no sign of great faith or love of the church. Yes it was lovely, absolutely delightful, but as the Lord says, ‘And if you greet only your brothers, what more are you doing than others? Do not even the Gentiles do the same? (Matthew 5: 47) For how many at the carol service came to mass in the morning or later that evening for love of the Blessed Virgin Mary on her great feast of the Immaculate Conception that very day? How many at the carol service would come to mass in their church on a Sunday or even once a month or twice a year? We need to heed the signs of the times, like one from a neighbouring church.
The new annual report from the Church in Belgium makes sad reading for all faithful Catholics.
It states that Mass attendance on an average Sunday was just 166,785 in 2021 in all Belgium, compared to 241,029 in 2019.
Attendance at Christmas Masses was 347,229 in 2021, a significant drop from 551,134 in 2019.
There are roughly 6.7 million baptized Catholics in Belgium out of a total population of almost 12 million, suggesting that around 2.5% of Catholics attended Sunday Mass in 2021, compared with 42.9% in 1967.
The report noted that there were 36,834 baptisms in 2021, including 162 adult baptisms, compared to 44,850 and 219 respectively in 2018.
There were 41,751 First Communions in 2021, down from 45,079 in 2018; 35,783 confirmations in 2021, compared to 39,284 in 2018; 4,032 Catholic marriages in 2021, in comparison with 6,765 in 2018; and 41,760 Catholic funerals in 2021, fewer than the 48,407 in 2018.
There were eight priestly ordinations in 2021, while six diocesan priests left the ministry in the same year.
It is also worth noting that another reflection of the rapid rejection of God in Belgian Society is the increase in people asking for ‘De -Baptism’. The Belgian Church’s report said there were 5,237 such requests in 2021, compared to 1,261 in 2020 and 1,800 in 2019.
Of course, there is no such thing as ‘De Baptism’ and it cannot be granted, because Catholics believe that once you are baptised you are always baptised. There’s absolutely nothing anyone can do about it. People do lose their faith and religious practice, but through confession and the sacrament of penance which channel God’s mercy, there is always a way back in. Let us pray for the Church in Belgium, but remember, it’s a neighbour. They are not wholly ‘other’ from us. We should consider this as a warning, and indeed, I suspect the English figures would not be very different.
Please ask yourselves:
What are you doing to pass on the Catholic Faith to our Children? Are you going to Mass every week and demonstrating to your family that your lives are ordered and directed to God, starting with being married? Do you show them by example that weekly attendance at mass is an obligation to God? (note it is actually a sin to miss even one Sunday mass other than for illness, essential work or impossible distance from a church). What are you doing to build the community and family life of your church? Are you encouraging a culture of vocation in your family so that your sons might consider priesthood or your daughters the religious life or do you think that is totally ridiculous? If you think that’s crazy, then where will our future priests come from? The future of the Church is in your hands: it’s you who make our future priests not us priests, just as our High Priest, Jesus Christ and all our the priests who stand in his shoes at the altar are because Mary said ‘yes’ to almighty God and so gave us her son. I pray you all, Mother Mary’s sons and daughters in today’s church will also say yes to God like her - and so work for the survival and growth of this parish and God’s Church. I do fully realise that not one of you bother to read this, but it is my prayer anyway.
God bless,
Fr Jonathon
Upcoming Events
ADVENT REFLECTIONS.
Join Patricia in the house after Friday mass to share in the Advent Gospel, with tea and coffee.
A DAY WITH MARY
Saturday 10th December 2022 at St.George’s Cathedral from 10. 15 a.m. to 5.15 p.m. Please bring packed lunch. Join Patricia in the house after Friday mass to share in the Advent Gospel, with tea and coffee.


Parish Youth Notices
Church for Children.
You are invited to bring your children to our ‘Children’s liturgy’ at the 9.00 o’clock mass on Sunday. We will finish for Christmas on the 11th December.
FIRST CONFESSION & HOLY COMMUNIONS 2023.
Applications are now closed.
Key dates:
First Holy Communion Group Christmas Choir at the Christmas Vigil Mass. 24th December 2022
First Session: 10.30 a.m. Saturday 7th January 2023.
First Confessions: probably a Saturday morning in March: to be confirmed.
Children’s Stations of the Cross: 10.30 a.m. Good Friday, 7th April 2023
First Holy Communions: Saturday 17th and Sunday 18th June 2023.
The fulfilment of the Sunday obligation to attend mass on all Catholics (with obvious exemptions) is required for all families with their children preparing to receive their First Holy Communion.
Confirmation 2023.
Application forms are available for collection from the priest at the end of all Sunday masses and should be returned to him after Sunday mass on a following Sunday.
Key dates:
Closing date for applications: Sunday 8th January 2023
Parents Meeting: Wednesday 11th January 2023 at 7 p.m.
First Session: Sunday 22nd January 2023
Confession: To be confirmed.
Confirmation: Sunday 23rd July 2023 at 11 a.m.
The fulfilment of the Sunday obligation to attend mass on all Catholics (with obvious exemptions) is required for all those preparing to receive their Confirmation.
Deaths
For all our brothers and sisters who ate the Body of Christ, the bread of Life, that they may be raised up on the Last Day. (Drawn from the intercession of the Funeral Mass)
Please pray for the souls of:
Clare Cullen who died on Friday 23rd September 2022 aged 92. Her funeral requiem was on Monday 31st October 2022 at 11.00 a.m. with committal at Camberwell New Cemetery.
Teresa Cooper who died on Wednesday 5th October 2022 aged 77. Her funeral was on Monday 7th November at 12.00 noon with committal at Eltham Crematorium at 1.45 p.m.
Denis McLaughlin who died on Tuesday 18th October. His funeral was on Friday 28th October in Belfast, Ireland.
John Maloney, 85, who died on Tuesday 1st November 2022. His funeral was on Monday 21st November 2022 followed by committal at St. Michael’s Church, Castletown, Co. Westmeath, Ireland.
May the divine assistance remain with them always, and may their souls and the souls of all the faithful departed through the mercy of God rest in peace.
Masses & Intentions for the Third Week of Advent
Instaurare Omnia in Christo: "to restore all things in Christ."
Saturday 10th December Feria with comm. of St. Melchiades (TC)
9.00 a.m. Confessions.
9.30 a.m. The Daily Rosary
+10.00 a.m. (Latin 1962) The people of the parish.
6.00 p.m. Confessions.
+ 6.30 p.m. THIRD SUNDAY OF ADVENT (Gaudete Sunday) Tracey D’Souza TG
Sunday 11th December
8.30 a.m. The Daily Rosary
+ 9.00 a.m. SUNG. Kathleen McMullen R.I.P.
+ 11.00 a.m. SOLEMN LATIN MASS (Latin with English Readings/ missa XVII adventus). Mario Pescatore R.I.P.
7.00 p.m. Parish Social Evening in the Hall.
Monday 12th December Our Lady of Guadaloupe.
9.30 a.m. The Daily Rosary.
10.00 a.m. Lawrence Hayward’s departed friends and family R.I.P.
Tuesday 13th December St. Lucy, virgin & martyr, memorial.
8.30 a.m. The Daily Rosary
9.00 a.m. John & Anne Fanthome W.B.
Wednesday 14th December St. John of the Cross, priest & doctor of the church, memorial.
The Daily Rosary at home.
NO PUBLIC MASS TODAY.
Thursday 15th December feria
9.30 a.m. The Daily Rosary
+10.00 a.m. Virginia Mendes R.I.P.
12.00 noon Thursday Lunch Club
Friday 16th December feria.
9.30 a.m. The Daily Rosary
+10.00 a.m. Gino Lisette R.I.P.
10.45 a.m. Advent Reflection in the house.
6.00 p.m. Choir Practice. New members welcome.
Saturday 17th December Ember Saturday of Advent TC
9.00 a.m. Confessions.
9.30 a.m. The Daily Rosary
+10.00 a.m. (Latin 1962) Eileen Bower R.I.P.
6.00 p.m. Confessions.
+ 6.30 p.m. FOURTH SUNDAY OF ADVENT Joachim D’Souza (Bernie’s father) R.I.P.
Parish Notice Board
FOOD BANK.
Don’t forget the Food Bank collection crate in the Church Porch! People are not managing to afford the basic essentials of life. If you can contribute some long life milk, canned food, packets of pasta, toilet rolls or any other non-perishable basics, you will be helping our neighbours in great need.
DECEMBER PRAYERS FOR THE INTERCESSION OF THE BLESSED VIRGIN MARY, THE IMMACULATE CONCEPTION: THE ALMA REDEMPTORIS MATER.
Listen to it here: https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=alma+redemptoris+mater+solemn+tone

The Alma Redemptoris Mater, like all the seasonal Marian antiphons, is sung to the more familiar simple tone on weekdays and the solemn tone on Sundays and solemnities. The YouTube link above is to the solemn tone, one of the most beautiful prayers elevated to the heavens by music. You can also hear this on Sundays at the end of the 11 o'clock mass at St Thomas More.
